My mom sent me a card in the mail today, so I am just writing "return to sender" on it.  I don't want her card.  I don't want anything to do with her.  She's not changing.  She's lying even more.  This is getting out of control.  I need to talk to our mutual friend today and tell her that I can't do this anymore.  I can't listen to her talk about me to my mom and I can't listen to her talk about my mom to me.  I need her to stop.  I didn't think it would get this out of control, but it is.  And I can't handle it.  I am a bit of a mess today....stressed out to the max...because of this. 

If she can't quit, I can't talk to her anymore. 


My hubby thinks I should not send the card back to her, that it will invite her to bother me more, but I don't agree.  I think it will tell her to stop.  Her ego will be so hurt, that she'll say "Well, that's it, I am done!"  And that's what I want from her.  I thought I'd burn any mail I get from her (and in the future, I will), but this doesn't feel right to do today.  I don't want her card.  She can have it back.

I need to destress today.  I need to relax and calm down.  I don't need another migraine.